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I like to be alone when I'm doing certain things. I don't get why my family doesn't get that.

new project

It's moonlight sonata

and a video

observations

So I was sitting in the dentist's office today and I remembered what I saw the other day sitting in the doctor's office. There was this sign on the door that said, "Use the other side". Out of the people that came in, one busy-looking couple rolled in a suitcase, completely ignoring the sign. The woman took a glance at it, and just walked in anyway while the man stormed in without seeing the sign at all. Then there was this kid, face etched with boredom like he really didn't want to be there, who did what the lady did and took one glance at the door only to walk through anyway. Then when his mom asked him, he said he didn't see it. A while later, there was this old man approaching the doctor's office with a walker, and directly facing the door was this man sitting with his kid...who was handicapped. I was sitting in the back of the room, so I was watching to see if he'd open the door. He sat there while the old man struggled to open the door by himself while managing his walker. I got really annoyed and walked to open the door. I glared at all of those people. People like that really annoy me.
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So I was thinking last night about how I'm supposedly "extroverted with my emotions". *sigh* I think that's just because people need to stop assuming they know exactly what's wrong with me. I don't really tell people exactly what's wrong with me. When I do tell them, it's something on the surface like..."oh yeah...I'm angry at my parents." Pssh...like that really tells them anything about what's going on. Heh...It makes me laugh when some people say they know me well.

boredom has reached a whole new level....

yeah...pssh...so people think they can tell you your personality through your birth month. Haha...like I said, boredome has taken a whole new level. Overly sensitive, possessive, protective, defensive...I think I have heard so much of that.

here...just how sensitive am I? XDD

as for "compatibility" 'tis always that golden "pisces, virgo, taurus, and scorpio"

I don't even know enough people to fit half of these signs. Anyway...I'm moving onto other things. Addicting game

what?

so the pretty table does not work on here....therefore

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Sex (0%)
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I think I'm slightly offended. I don't think I fit the old geezer stereotype....Sex = 0% XDDDD Makes me look innocent...tsk tsk tsk...How did Tracy get 10% then? <<<.<<<

so....

I don't know how many times I'm going to decide to drop the issue that's nagging at me in my head. Drop it, Ha Thien....drop it.

I think the answer that I'm looking for here is how to differentiate between truths and lies. I think that it's better to be told the ugly truth than to be told a nice lie and then be confused later about which side they're on. Eh....Let it go. I don't think it will do me any good to think about things that I have no control over, eh? People regret what they regret. As long as I don't regret it, then it obviously meant something, right?

eh....onto something more fun.

I had this dream last night where Frances, me, and some other person (I forgot) were pulled into this thing. I don't know if it could be called a game or not, but basically, you're attached to this harness, much like the ones that they put on you for the rock wall thing. Frances went first, along with a bunch of other people. I forgot why, but I went a while later...and when I went they told me to put eyedrops in my eye...I have no idea why. But I did, and when Alex went over with a waver signed, they told her that I was the last person who gets to go.

Then the lady turned to me and told me to close my eyes and don't look down. Then they showed me this badly drawn diagram of stick figures and such. Basically, what they're doing is attaching me to this bungee cord. Then, they're going to catapult me fromt the tower that we're on, and I'm going to fall onto a lower platform. But...to break my fall, they have this giant tank of water that I'll fall into. great, fear of heights and fear of water kicking in...but I told myself that if Frances can do the same thing, then it's okay. So I did, and I had this really bad feeling of falling down, like in all my other dreams, but I actually stuck with this one, and then a feeling of being submerged in water came. I was really scared then, because I can't swim. I got out, however, and went into this nice hotel on the lower level of our now skycraper-y school? <.<

Anyway, there was this table with a lot of food on it...and I started to get food...I have no idea why because I wasn't hungry. Then I went to look for Frances, and I found someone that told me Frances just ran off to get some food. So somehow, my food miraculously disappeared and I thought I'd lie down on a futon somewhere. The rest of the dream is a blur. That was a strange dream.

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I've been thinking again. I'm one insane individual. I don't think I'm ever satisfied with just one answer. Maybe it's curiosity, maybe it's annoying persistence. Whatever it is, it makes me one insane person.

heh

So I've been told I don't update much. Well, what has happened since the last time I posted?

This weird lady keeps calling my house. Her name is....insignificant to me, but the fact that she calls almost everyday is annoying me to no end. Obviously, she has no idea what my dad is REALLY like...w/e, her fault. However, it's not her loss that worries me, it's my dad's gain that worries me...but for now, I'll deal with it.

I have a summer service place to work at now, I start tomorrow at 10 am. Will I be able to wake up? No. Therefore, I will probably have two alarms set....*sigh* summer service, in my opinion is pointless. Every single place is so full that they don't even know what jobs to give us anymore. Perhaps I should've done something for the humane society? Nono...I will not swtich. I'll stick with this job even if it kills me.

Lately, I've been reading manga, but reading too much bores me...obviously...since I'm here blogging. Lately, I've been reading hunterxhunter and maybe naruto, I'm not sure if I even like it yet. A lot of these seem a little childish to me, but I'll live. However....Kino no tabi is GREAT. hehehehehe, I stress great. I've also been watching foodnetwork lately. Hehe, I've also been cooking more since I prefer my own cooking to my dad's, the bad side is that she eats it, too....and then I wash the dishes. GRR...

In terms of music, there's been chevelle. "Forfeit" est hyper bien. There's also the new Maroon 5 CD, which has a few very good songs. They're mellow, and I can fall asleep to them. "Goodnight, Goodnight" is good, and so is "Not Falling Apart", there's also "It's Better That We Break"...they have depressing lyrics, yes...but 'tis good music. A bit dancy, unlike their "Songs About Jane" CD, which is wonderfully jazzy. I prefer music in minor keys and/or played with the blues scale, I think. Jazz is wonderful, whether it's pure jazz, or just that jazzy element in it.

Jenny's bunny died....and that kid is permanently staying away from my bunny <.<

Ugh..now I have to go write down the multiplication tables so she can memorize it. I tell ya, my parents are crazy...they see another NCSSM kid in Jenny, no kidding...that kid isn't even 7 yet..., and she only just finished kindergarten. She's born late in the year, so she's behind, and my parents are trying to get her to advance to 2nd grade if possible. Basically, they're making her study until she's eligible to skip a grade.

today's quotes

"The reason we hurt others is because we don't understand their pain. If we all understood each other's feelings, there would be no more conflicts; that's what we thought. Soon we realized what a horror it wasto be able to read other people's thoughts and be read yourself. Even when you weren't in pain yourself, you could still feel the pain of others, and there was nothign positive about that. Because in the end, if you understood the pains of others you just couldn't live a normal life."

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so I wonder....why is it that there are people who has to mask care with hostility? why do the opposite to hide what really is? I know too many people like that

too many....and I'm just frustrated with them. there's no balance if the other person goes the other way...one person steps forward, one person steps back...one person assumes, the other one reacts to the assumption...nothing is said and all is lost in the unspoken words. Makes me angry...

ARGHH
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"The truth behind fighting...fighting continues forever. After you're defeated one person, someone stronger appears. If you manage to defeat him, then an even stronger person comes along. If you don't have the resolve to endure that eternal struggle, then eventually your confidence will erode. But it doesn't end there! The battle will continue elsewhere, fought by others. It's an endless cycle, and if doesn't end with a person's death! The cycle will continue."

So it's important to accept your situation, to accept your fate. I tell myself that, but have I really accepted it? Or am I still holding out for it to change? In that hope, am I just getting weaker? Am I letting my wounds get to me? Am I really accepting the fact that I will always have to continue fighting? Or am I getting tired of the fight and I've lost my resolve?

More importantly, why am I thinking about this late at night!?

OOOO:

Hinamori was....killed by....Aizen...*gasp**gasp**gasp*

okay....I'm done. What should I say at this point? Well, haha, I don't know if this is an ability or some kind of weird thing that I do....whatever you want to call it, I seem to absorb weird little lessons from things that I watch.

So far what have I thought? Well...I shall tell you in a quote:

“When you dodge, ‘I’m afraid of getting cut.’ When you attack, ‘I’m afraid of cutting someone.’ Even when you try to protect someone, ‘I’m afraid of letting them die.’ What’s necessary in a fight isn’t fear; nothing can be born from that. If you dodge, ‘I won’t let them cut me.’ If you protect someone, ‘I won’t let them die.’ If you attack, ‘I’ll cut them.’”

I guess I shouldn't be afraid as much...or I'll be put into this vicious cycle. Fear limits my range of actions...which ultimately leads to me getting hurt....hurting someone that will end up getting me hurt in return...then there will be more fear...and...the cycle goes on. It's a foolish thing to do...I know that, but...I don't know...someone it just clicked more here. Also, whatever just happened above, being killed by someone you "love" and grieved over...that hardened my resolved to not let my emotions get in the way of rational decisions. That one will be harder, but I'll do it eventually if my resolve brings me far enough.

However...there is also the hardened resolve to follow my emotions...to care about someone completely. I think that perhaps the secret is not "to feel or not to feel", "to follow or not to follow." I think that the real secret is when to follow, when to feel, when to care, and when to fight. It's about the perfect timing, and it's about making decisions, whether or not they're right. Hmm....

Then there's the "illusion" part of it all. Well...people are people. I've decided that a long time ago. If I believe them, if I trust them, if I care about them, and if I...eventually..."love" someone...well...it's my fault. I think that I've told myself that it's not about avoiding the fact that people lie to you, or put up a facade when they interact with you...it's about being able to deal with it. If so and so really didn't care about me...it's their loss...maybe loss of self, maybe loss of a possible good relationship with another person. Whatever it is, being hostile and being dishonest will hurt them more in the end. If I can deal with the shock, and if I am able to trust and care about someone but still be able to pull myself out of an attack from them...then I've succeeded. It's silly, isn't it? It's silly to close out emotions, and to close out other people's emotions...just because you're afraid that what they feel towards you isn't real. I think that people who believe that emotions aren't real, that emotions only pull you into trouble, or that "love" is just something insignificant that people "say without meaning", are people who are afraid that they aren't real. They're afraid that if they chance it and care about someone for once, they'll find out that the other person's feelings aren't real....all in all, they're ultimately afraid of getting hurt.

To believe that air doesn't exist, just because you can't see it, is to believe that what's holding you up isn't real. I'm not sure if you can understand that, but that's what I think.

watching and thinking

It's emotions. Emotions cloud judgment, strong enough emotions release those nice little adrenaline rushes...and enough of that makes for hasty decisions. So where is the line between the mind and the "heart", for a lack of a better word...?

I think I'm different from most in that while I believe that emotions cloud your judgment, and lead your carriage down this gravel path in the park that you sometimes wish would be different, I also think that...well, you need them. Emotions are inevitable, it's just a matter of how much you can control them. Wait...no....you can't control you emotions...I think it's a matter of being able to control your actions that are results of your emotions. Some people can do that, some others can't. I can't; I think that makes me a slave to my emotions. However, if you look at it in another way, I also fully enjoy my emotions at the same time. In being upset, feeling sadness, in caring and failing, I am creating opportunities for me to feel accomplished, to learn things about myself and my emotions. After I'm upset, what do I feel? I feel remorse, regret, but then when it's resolved, I feel happiness. Having failed, I'm able to fully feel success when it comes. Having been hurt, I'm able to appreciate how much other people care about me. I'm glad.

How did that I get to that point up there? I don't know....I tend to talk myself down a winding road. Hmmm....more and more, I feel like I'm doing a bad impersonation of myself...that's the quote that I keep thinking. However, the thing is, more and more I feel like I'm not trying to act like myself. Something to think about there....

I watched House last night, and I watched this episode that made me think. Basically, to make it short, I ended up asking myself, "How is it that you can love someone, and still not trust them?" Hahaha, then I thought to myself, "I do that all the time." I care about certain people, but I don't tell them everything. I have things that I hide, feelings that I don't convey, messages from my brain that are not relayed. I think....perhaps I know how the other side feels now, but then again....the people I care about--who hopefully cares about me back--do the same things! Funny, eh? I value trust, but I don't trust, what does that say about me? I'm afraid of it?

irritated

I don't understand why my dad won't stpo talking. I'm answering as little as I can, is that not a clue?

Well...*sigh* back to House

update in a while

I know that I haven't done much in a while....but I'm now watching death note 2.

there is a great website that a wonderful person gave me that has links to a lot of movies and shows that are already posted on the internet. 'tis a great shortcut, and I'm happy that I have it.

so what has happened in the timespan that I've been gone? Lots.

My roommate and I have had fights, disputes, I've had a few interesting epiphanies on love and life in general. What can I say? the thing that is iccupying my mind right now is how much I miss my roommate. I'm not used to being isolated from people that I like. 'tis a strange feeling...but I guess it's okay if we talk on the phone occasionally. I'd much prefer IM, though...Speaking of whcih, Tracy is gone until school starts again.

I think my summer is apparently destined to be blegh beyond all reason.

But....staying positive, I've been able to watch mucho House!! and now, I have Death Note 2: The Last Name. 'Tis a good movie.

So my parents are being stupid, in my opinion anyway. My dad is hanging around this lady quite a bit....but she's "asking him to help with things". shameless woman. Oh yes....why not come to dinner also!? But...I guess it's a good thing, I asked my dad today, and well....my mom was home yesterday :DD

hmmm, well, no matter what the reason was, I'm glad. she picked up the phone when Frances called, and well...hehehehe

anyway...that doesn't mean she's back permanently. No matter, it shall be fine, I think. My uncle's visiting, I think that's why she went back. He's here today. I think she brought him food or something. Doesn't think my dad can handle it XDD funny. hmm, I'll go back to death note now, I guess.